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when trans women call you out on being transmisogynist, don’t hide and tell us “blame the patriarchy, not other women, we’re fighting together”
If a trans woman is calling you out on being transmisogynist, it’s probably because you’re being transmisogynist, which cis women are, surprise surprise, capable of being. Fucking apologize and stop making shitty excuses.
wait hold up, people actually… respond like that…? why? i’m confused, reasons under readmore so i don’t clog up your post
PSA post to my fellow feminists
trans*women can’t appropriate a woman’s identity
why?
because they are women.
Maybe this needs repeating- but being a woman transcends your genitalia or your chromosomes. Being a woman is how you identify. That’s it. That’s all it takes to identify as a woman. If you know in your heart of hearts that you are a woman- that’s all it is.
So don’t be that douche bag that has the audacity to degrade a trans woman or demand her to prove her womanhood. She owes you no explanation.
Now if you really are a feminist, you will defend her existence to the death and ensure that she always has a safe space and voice with in the movement.
